Sekadar catatan

There was a silver lining when Datin Ferero (not her real name) video-called me last night to discuss her problem. Suddenly, my own issues seemed smaller in comparison to her much bigger challenge. (My problem, which seemed small, now feels like a mere dot.😜)

(In fact, orang yang diberi ujian itu lagi elok dari rasa tenang je walau ada buat dosa tapi Allah tak pandang).

So, I would like to emphasize that when someone shares their problems with you, it doesn't mean they’re complaining; it means they trust you. It signifies a level of trust and comfort, showing they feel safe enough to be vulnerable and seek your support or perspective.

However, it’s important to recognize who in our lives is willing to listen and provide support, and to be mindful of their emotional capacity. Not everyone may be receptive or supportive when we share our issues. Some people might feel overwhelmed, uninterested, or unsure how to respond, which can come across as annoyance.  On the contrary, they make the situation even worse.. ibarat tikus membaiki labu.  (Contohnya : Bukannya nak simpati tapi makin ditempelak pulak). Tapi, biarkan saja kerana yg menilai kita adalah Allah bukan manusia.