Tuesday, May 25, 2010

10 TIP UNTUK SUAMI ~ supaya dicintai selamanya


Gambar tiada kena mengena dgn artikel...
cuma I berkenan dgn hiasan dapur ni..
mcm sejuk dan mendamaikan jer....

Baiklah...Untuk Para Suami... sila baca artikel yg I copy
dari Pak Sheikh ni...


No one ever thinks about the characteristics of a Muslim husband. It is always what a wife should do for the husband...and the list never ends; home management, tutoring, ferrying the kids, caring, cooking, cleaning, washing, working, you name it, she is doing it..... so what about the brothers?

What a Muslim husband should be like...

1. Dress up for your wife, look clean and smell good. When was the last time you went shopping for designer pyjamas? Just like the husband wants his wife to look nice for him, she also wants her husband to dress up for her too. Remember that the Prophet would always start with Miswak when returning home and always loved the sweetest smells.

2. Use the best names for your wife. Call your wife by the most beloved names to her, and avoid using names that hurt their feelings.

ada tak yg mcm ni? : "maknyaaaa... ooo maknya..." "Hoiii...hoiii makcik"

3. Don't treat her like a fly. We never think about a fly in our daily lives until it 'bugs' us. Similarly, a wife will do well all day - which brings no attention from the husband - until she does something to 'bug' him. Don't treat her like this; recognize all the good that she does and focus on that.

4. If you see wrong from your wife, try being silent and do not comment! This is one of the ways the Prophet used when he would see something inappropriate from his wives (R.A). It's a technique that few Muslim men have mastered.

5. Smile at your wife whenever you see her and embrace her often. Imagine life with her constantly seeing you smiling. Remember also those hadith when the Prophet would kiss his wife before leaving for Salaah.

6. Thank her for all that she does for you. Then thank her again! Take for example a dinner at your house. She makes the food, cleans the home, and a dozen other tasks to prepare. And sometimes the only acknowledgment she receives is that there needed to be more salt in the soup. Don't let that be; thank her!

7. Ask her to write down the last ten things you did for her that made her happy. Then go and do them again. It may be hard to recognize what gives your wife pleasure. You don't have to play a guessing game, ask her and work on repeating those times in your life.

8. Don't belittle her desires. Comfort her. Sometimes the men may look down upon the requests of their wives. The Prophet set the example for us in an incident when Safiyyah (R.A) was crying because, as she said, he had put her on a slow camel. He wiped her tears, comforted her, and brought her the camel.

9. Be humorous and play games with your wife. Look at how the Prophet would race with his wife Aisha (R.A) in the desert. When was the last time we did something like that?

10. Always remember the words of Allah's Messenger : 'The best of you are those who treat their families the best. And I am the best amongst you to my family.' Try to be the best!


10 comments:

  1. Jika kalian ikut seperti protokol isteri2 masa lalu, seperti ibu2 kita, pasti suami kalian akan tetap sayang akan kalian sampai mati.

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  2. MS~ utk suami pula...jika suami mengikut akhlak Rasullulah (S.A.W) di dlm hubungan mereka terhadap isteri mereka sbgmana yg tertulis di dlm artikel ini, insyaAllah akan damai dan tenteramlah hati para isteri, maka isteri2 akan berasa rumahtangga mereka bagaikan sebuah syurga yg tidak ternilai.

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  3. insyaAllah akan dijadikan panduan...

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  4. mudah2an rumahtangga aman bahagia Zul..

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  5. Ardini ~ emailkan artikel ni pd hubby u...

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  6. serius cantek dapur ct nurhaliza neh..kekekee

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  7. itu baru wet kitchen dia Cik Linda... dry kitchen dia lg bersalut emas gaknya.. (sorry gurau je Tok Ti... menggosip je I ni).

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