Wednesday, October 23, 2013

Bercerai...

Dear Boss...

Ya,  ai tau.... ai sepatutnya masih dlm tempoh "pertapaan"  lagi....tapi hari ni merupakan hari sedih seorang BFF sbb tu la ai update entry sikit2 ni (ala don't worry, tak ambik masa yg byk punn, karang ai kembali la bekerja... hehe)... 

Alkisah kawan ai tu..."Masjid yang dibinanya telah runtuh".  Dah cuba disangga, direnovate... tapi runtuh jugak... Sedihnya ai mendengar berita itu...   Ai kesal sbb tak dpt membantunya di saat2 beliau bertarung dlm kesedihan selama ini... mungkin sbb waktu itu ai "menghilangkan diri" (ghaib dari FB)... tau2 bila ai call dia kata dia dah divorced..... sedihnyaa.



Buat teman2 lain yg dah berkahwin  di luar sana... ini ai copy'kan satu cerita yg boleh dijadikan ikhtibar ... tapi bukan kisah BFF tadi tu, kisah Mat Saleh... sbb tu berspeaking2 dan berdollar2..






She married him today. At the end of the wedding party, her mother gave her a newly opened bank savings passbook, with $1000 deposited in it. She told her, 




"My dear daughter, take this passbook. Keep it as a record of your married life. Whenever something happy and memorable happens in your new life, put some money in. Write down what it's about next to the amount. The more memorable the event is, the more money you can put in. I've done the first one for you today. Do the others with your husband. When you look back after years, you will know how much happiness you've both shared." 




She shared this with him after getting home. Both of them thought it was a great idea and couldn't wait to make the next deposit! This is what the passbook looked like after a while: -


7 Feb: $100, his first birthday celebration after marriage - 
1 Mar: $300, she gets a salary raise - 
20 Mar: $200, vacation to Bali - 
15 Apr: $2000, She's pregnant! - 
1 Jun: $1000, He gets the big promotion and so on... 



BEBERAPA TAHUN KEMUDIAN.......... JENG JENG JENG!!!   MEREKA BERGADUH... RASA NAK BERCERAI...



DIA PUN CAKAP LA NGAN MAK DIA...

'Mom, we can't stand it anymore. We have decided to divorce. I can't imagine how I decided to marry this guy!' Her mother replied, 

"Sure, that's no big deal. Just do whatever you want, if you really can't stand it. But before that, do one thing. Remember the savings passbook I gave you on your wedding day? Take out all money and spend it first. You shouldn't keep any record of such a poor marriage.' 


She agreed with her. So she went to the bank, and was waiting in the queue to cancel the account. While she was waiting, she took a look at the passbook record. She looked, and looked, and looked. Then the memory of all the previous joyful moments came back to her. Her eyes were filled with tears. She left and went home. When she got home, she handed the passbook to him and asked him to spend the money before getting divorced. 

So the next day, he went to the bank, and was waiting in the queue to cancel the account. While he was waiting, he took a look at the passbook record. He looked, and looked, and looked. Then the memory of all the previous joyful moments came back to him. His eyes were filled with tears. He left and went home. He gave the passbook back to her. She found a new deposit of $5000. And a line next to the record: 

'This is the day I realized how much I've loved you throughout all these years. How much happiness you've brought me.' They hugged and cried, putting the passbook back into the safe. 

ALHAMDULILLAH.... tak jadi bercerai mereka..

If you like this story then from now on give a print out of this story to every couple who is getting married along with a nice notebook to record their happy times...who know you may just be able to help them !! — Hit like & share to married couples whom you care.


p/s :    Bayangkan kalau kau berada dalam kasut mereka, agak2 dah berapa RM ada dlm akaun tu?.   Beratus2 ribu?.  Segala bentuk benda yg diklasifikasikan sbg kegembiraan semua "dibayar" dgn duit masuk dlm akaun as a return.. maunya tak byk... 

Kalau ai pulak, lain kisahnya.... tiap kali sedih (dulu2 la), ai tros  takde mood nak nyoping, maka balance2 itu la yg ai simpan..


JUMPA LAGI MINGGU DEPAN, INSHA ALLAH... AI MINTA MAAF SBB BUAT MASA NI BELUM  ADA MASA UNTUK MEMBUAT KUNJUNGAN BALAS, MEMBALAS KOMEN DAN SBGNYA...  AI BUSY!!!!!.



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4 comments:

  1. akak, seram kan kalau dgr pktaan cerai ni...dlu penah gak tbca yg kata purata 3 psgn dalam sejam bercerai kat mesia ni....

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  2. alahai kesiannyaaa kawan MM..huhuhu..

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  3. Minta kita dijauhkan drp perkara yang Allah paling tak suka ni..kan?

    Semoga rakan Sam tu tabah dan lebih bahagia selepas ni. Moga dia buat keputusan yang betul... payah kita nak nilaikan sebab bukan kita yang tanggung semuanya...

    Apalah kerja yang sibuk sangat tu sam ooi...,? Projek juta ke ni?

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  4. seram dan menakutkan bila ada perkataan 'cerai'..

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