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Assalamualaikum gurlz!.

Since we're already discussing the topic of marriage, I'd like to share my opinion to all girls out there.

Marry a man who will be the best father for your children. Because, when you step into motherhood, you will understand that what you truly value in a partner isn’t financial prosperity or ideal physique. Good looks and money are desirable, but they aren't everything you should be looking for. 

Just imagine at 2 a.m., when the baby is crying, and your eyes are heavy and your body weak after childbirth. What's important isn't how he looks or what he has. It's his support and love for you that will push him out of bed to take care of the baby right away and tell you:

"Have a rest, honey. I've got this."

If I could tell young people what to consider in a partner, I would say: marry a man who will be the best father for your children. A man who will put you and your family above everything else. A man who is as responsible as you are in raising the family because both of you are in this together. Because in all of it, every time you see your partner with your children, you will fall in love again. Choose wisely, not just for yourself but for your children.